I will say before I got with my wife. I had 3 couple's that I had been friends with for a long time. Well long story short.I got asked to join each of them many times over like a 6 maybe 7 year time. And then I got with my wife now. And it was my idea to have other Men join us. And I was very surprised to find out I enjoy shearing and seeing my Wife getting hammered by another man Way more then I enjoyed being a Bull for my Friends and there wife's. Just something about it. It a full body rush that keeps rolling over you over and over for a long time. It's like a Drug.